TWIN FLAMES NEWSFLASH!
As a direct result of being in Sacred Union, I just had the following realization and felt compelled to capture it immediately to see if this awareness is cascading into other Divine Connections. (If so, please share your experience in the comments section below.)
My latest discovery in the Twin Flames (ad)venture
is that there is actually more than
one Union within the Union!
Let me explain.
Okay… so like many Twins, I hear repeated references to The Union. Singular.
Planet-wide Twins are sensing each other, energetically aligning to each other, dreaming about each other, finding each other, reuniting and diving deep into the
often hellish transmutation process, with all of it ultimately leading to the merge; ascension; to live and create magick in sacred Union.
Inspired by others who are leading the charge into the new relational paradigm, I adopted the singular Union concept because it made enough sense at the time. I mean, what else is there in uncharted territory?
Brief digression here… we are completely winging this journey with no rule book and doing a damn, fine job I might add. Sometimes we grapple, sometimes we flounder and sometimes we demonstrate true mastery, even if it feels like an accident. And I don’t know about you, but mastery is showing up more consistently, the more I play in my connection and sustain a child-like sense of awe and wonder of what’s next.
But let’s get back to the topic.
Based on my personal journey of taking greater responsibility, healing my fragmentation, facing my darkest fears, willingly showing up in raw vulnerability, and taking inspired action, my fresh understanding is this:
The Union is actually comprised of two entwined Unions:
1. The One-Soul Union (of both energies) AND
2. The Union Within The Self (of each individual).
Color me the shade of COMPLETELY BLOWN AWAY (although I can’t find the corresponding HEX number for it) when the thought-forms of this concept whirled and amassed right in front of me during a conversation with a friend (also in Twin partnership).
As my Twin and I engage, converse, share and delight within the Union comprised of both energies – and simultaneously FULLY occupy our Own-ness or Self-ness as sovereign individuals within the Union – we are being activated in ways that neither of us have experienced before. An acceleration has been mobilized. We have been launched into another dimension of the Twin Flames expansion. And, although I cannot know for sure, I suspect it is because both of us are showing up fully, both consciously and consistently in service to the joint Union, with each assuming ultimate responsibility within The Self.
From this perspective, I now see that we have had it backwards. (No blame here, just observing from a new vantage point.) I say that simply because without knowing what to make of these intense Connections and how to move through them with ease (until now), many of us have focused entirely on the Union itself as conditioned by old relational patterns, pouring ourselves into it, losing ourselves in it, placing it on a pedestal, and maybe even worshiping the Union as a separate entity from ourselves. I know I did each of these for a time and I cannot be the only one.
It’s possible, too, that we became enamored or engulfed by the idea of Twin Flames or Divine Union without fully comprehending the level of unwavering commitment required of The Self, the individual, as a foundational piece of The Union itself.
When The Selves are sound, the Union is sound.
This is an entirely new way of looking at Union. It opens another portal previously inaccessible. It’s like a doorway appearing where previously there was only a wall.
It feels imperative to wholly restore The Self, by yourself. By that I mean it is an inside job. Look at your shit. And take care of it. Yes, your Twin may help to some degree, but because their attention is on their own restoration of The Self, their hands are kinda full right now.
It seems that the requirement for entry
into an even more elevated state of Twin Flame Union
is a whole-hearted commitment to
unifying and fortifying the Self, to ultimately catapult the conjoined One-Soul into a state of
Does this mean we’ve done it wrong until now? No way! Beloved Twins, there’s nothing like real-world experience to widen our scope and learn even easier ways of maneuvering within these extraordinary Connections. (And to share what we learn with each other, which is the purpose of this post.)
When you embody Union of Self, your One-Soul Union takes on a vibrance and momentum of its own. The Union sustains itself at a frequency that is continually re-calibrating and ever-elevating based on the influx of energies from its two thriving Self components.
With each attending The Union, the Selves remain in an unaccelerated state. (And there’s nothing at all wrong with that. Sometimes we need to catch our breath.)
With each attending The Self, however, the Union becomes its own self-sustaining and self-propelled entity which knows only the state of thriving.
What’s the point of a self-sustaining Union?
From what I’ve noticed in my personal experience, when the Union is self-sustaining, the inspiration, creativity and action-orientation in BOTH Twins is OFF. THE. CHARTS. At this point, you can be fully and actively engaged in your unique facet of the mission, regardless of what your Twin is doing or not doing.
For a period of time when my Twin and I were not in communication, one of my greatest heart-hurts was that I wouldn’t be able to deliver on my Twin purpose. I was very concerned about this and I felt profoundly sad. I thought it was an imperative that we unite and merge in the physical. I was wrong. After realizing – and making peace with the notion – that I was only responsible for my role, I learned how to embrace and craft my individual experience and thrive. I gave myself full permission to be in Union and extract all energetic benefits of it, even though my Twin and I weren’t actively engaged. We have that kind of authority in these Connections, but we don’t always remember to wield its power.
As a Self within Union, you can be in the world in all the ways that inspire your heart, carrying the certainty that you each have a unique contribution to make, and that yours may look very different from your Other. You may also have completely different time-lines or levels of readiness. Whatever. Both are essential to the mission. And you can absolutely trust your Twin to listen and act based on their own guiding wisdom no matter how that looks or feels to you. We are not here to supervise or micro-manage our Partner. The Divine has the logistics covered. Get on with the business of your role.
I liken self-sustainability in The Flame to a seedling. When it’s just planted, it needs extra attention, frequent watering, and special lighting. At some future point when it’s more established, it does its thing without the same level of involvement based solely on the very nature of itself. It cannot do anything but! And so the same is true in Divine Union.
When you and your Partner have BOTH
done your work and have reached a level
of spiritual maturity within the Connection,
there is an inherent guiding nature in it that propels itself.
Isn’t that a miraculous plan!?
Attending to the Union, per se, becomes largely unnecessary, just like the baby seedling that has grown into a mighty oak. It is strong enough in its mission to continue on, guided by the encodements within.
With Twin Mastery, the nature of the Connection itself sparks The Selves to their highest expressions with its swirling synergy, which by their individual, inspired expressions in the world, then directs nourishment back into the Connection. A closed system. Completely self-sustaining.
Oh, what a time to be alive in the mystery and magick of The Flame!