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accountability, awareness, condition, discipline, impeccable, intrude, learn, project, question, trifecta
How do I hold
supportive energies in my Union
without being intrusive/projective?
Holding supportive energies is a learned skill. So is being unintrusive or unprojective. Combined, they hold a powerful formula for effortlessly extracting the best from yourself, your Twin and your Union, with the added benefit of enhancing every facet of life.
The ‘how’ involves what I call the ‘Trifecta of Union Mastery‘:
- self-discipline
- self-accountability
- self-awareness
Becoming the highest version of yourself
happens in the process
of being actively engaged with your Twin,
whether energetically or physically.
Whatever surfaces in a moment is the next invitation to acknowledge where you are misaligned to Love and to realign as expeditiously as possible. In this way, the construct of Twinship is no different than parenting, traveling or questing. They are all ways of discovering more of Who We Are and what’s possible throughout the unfoldment.
A great part of this journey is claiming ownership; making it YOURS; taking full responsibility for YOUR facet of the Union. As you exercise the (possibly atrophied) muscles of practicing greater self-discipline, -accountability and -awareness in all areas of life, you’ll notice that the trying/efforting is absent from holding supportive energies or being unintrusive or unprojective.
It’s paradoxical, I know, but somehow, one day you’ll simply notice that you embody the behaviors naturally and they emanate from you without thought or intent. You will just BE unconditionally supportive without intrusion or projection. How amazing is that!?
While the process may feel quite unnatural at first, you learn by doing; with regular practice.
You see…
… implementing the trifecta requires a deliberateness;
an intentionality, because it may go counter
to your societal or experiential conditioning.
To one degree or another, by models around us, we have been conditioned to avoid being impeccable with these qualities; to avoid the responsibility. It’s more comfortable/convenient/safe to blame others for our circumstances (yes, even our Twins) and/or position ourselves as victims because we don’t know a better way.
But let me remind you that WE ARE NOT VICTIMS ON THIS JOURNEY. We are mighty, Divine creators of our lives… we may have just forgotten for a minute. [insert kind, loving gentleness to yourself here]
You’ll find a freedom on the other side of acting with impeccability. It is a uncommon quality that sets you apart from the masses. Then, watch what you have the power to magnetize, both in and out of Union.
As practice, what can you do RIGHT NOW to exercise greater self-discipline, self-accountability and self-awareness? (I promise… when you pose the question with genuine wonder, the opportunity to practice WILL appear, so be ready!)